Preparing for Weather Issues on Your Wedding Day

Amanda and Andrew's Wedding...coming soon!
Photo courtesy of Carden's Wedding Photography
No matter how hard you try, there's one aspect of your wedding day that you can't control- the weather. Bad weather, from extreme heat and winds to heavy rain and snow, can really put a damper on your plans. But it's important to keep in mind that even though you can't control the weather, you can certainly prepare for it.

Hire wedding professionals that you can count on not only to show up in bad weather, but to guide you through the challenges that come along with it. A Wedding Planner can be invaluable in these circumstances as he or she can handle all of the weather-related stress so that you can enjoy your day. If possible, try to purchase wedding insurance. No one expects a hurricane or blizzard on their wedding day, but these things can happen and in some cases they can even postpone your "I Do's". In these situations, certain insurance policies have the potential to prevent you from losing everything you've spent.

Consider the weather throughout every step of the planning process. When searching for your venue, look for spaces that will work rain or shine. If you have your heart set on an outdoor ceremony or cocktail hour, that's fine, but make sure the site has a Plan B that you're equally comfortable with. Many venues have covered or indoor options that can be used in case of inclement weather. If you don't love Plan B, keep searching. The last thing you want is to wake up on your wedding day, realize it's raining and know that you'll have to get married in a backup location you hate.

If you're planning an outdoor reception you'll definitely want to investigate tent options. Many venues already have tents onsite. Make sure they have sides and appropriate flooring in order to handle extremely wet days. No one wants to be damp or stand in the mud all night.
Suzanne and Ben's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Jennifer Childress Photography
Don't just consider precipitation when visiting potential venues- think about temperatures as well. If your ceremony is outdoors, will it be in direct sunlight, or will there be shade? Does the church or historic mansion you're using have air conditioning? Will your tent have fans or space heaters to accommodate unusually hot or cold temperatures? Asking these questions early on will help you avoid stress later.

Dress appropriately for the season. I know that sounds obvious, but when you fall in love with a heavy beaded gown in an air-conditioned store, you're not always thinking about the fact that it could be 100 degrees on your wedding day. The same thing applies for your bridal party. Dress lengths, fabrics, and accessories are all important. If your wedding is in the winter, opt for longer dresses and shawls to keep your bridesmaids warm. If you're getting married during a notoriously wet month, try to avoid fabrics that water spot easily. 

Work with your florist to select blooms that are hearty enough to withstand heat, cold, wind, rain or snow. Consider ordering extras of smaller items like the groom's boutonniere so that you'll have a back-up if it wilts. On the day of your wedding, try to keep flowers indoors or in water as long as possible.

Incorporate details and decor that can work to combat any weather issues you may run into. Program fans or water stations at your ceremony are a perfect way to help beat summer heat, while a basket of complimentary wraps or a hot signature cocktail can keep guests warm if the temperature drops.
Jessica and David's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Jennifer Childress Photography
Wind can definitely be a problem for outdoor decor. Keep programs together in baskets rather than setting them out on chairs. If you're planning on using candles- especially unity candles- keep them in tall votive holders or hurricanes so that they stay lit. Consider LED candles for items like luminaries that could easily topple over in a strong breeze. 

As your wedding day gets closer, keep an eye on the forecast, but don't obsess over it or panic too early. It might change a million times before your day arrives. If bad weather looks like a strong possibility, reach out to your vendors to hash out all of the details and make any necessary changes. Find out when you would need to make the call to use the Plan B site at your venue so that it's set in time. If your forecast calls for rain, stock up on extra golf umbrellas for guests who might forget them and make sure your venue has walk-off mats in place so they don't slip while entering the building. Umbrella bags and coat checks, or at the very least coat racks, are also essential. If snow is predicted, make sure the venue is prepared to salt and shovel. If severe storms and power outages are a possibility find out if your venue has a back-up generator to avoid leaving your guests in the dark. 

Consider whether or not your timeline needs to be altered to account for slower travel times in harsh conditions. You may have to rethink any sort of send offs you had planned. Be prepared for the fact that some out of town guests, especially those flying in, may not be able to attend in severe weather.
Madeleine and Eddie's Wedding
Photo courtesy of mkPhoto
Check with your hairstylist to make sure that the style you chose will still hold up in whatever weather the forecast is calling for. Be sure that your veil is tightly secured in case of heavy winds. If it's storming hard on your wedding day, try to get dressed at your venue. If that's not possible, have your bridal party hold your gown off of the ground to avoid puddles and mud in your path and don't put on your shiny white shoes until you're ready to walk down the aisle. 

Talk to your photographer about alternative places to shoot if the weather's too uncooperative, but try to get a few shots outside if at all possible. Have fun with it. Pick up some colorful umbrellas or rain boots for your bridal party to pose with. Don't be afraid to trudge through the snow for a bit in your Uggs. Rain, snow, wind and clouds can make for beautiful and unique pictures. If going outside is totally impossible, see if your photographer is willing to do a Day-After Session when the weather clears so you can still have the photos you dreamed of.

Do your best to be prepared, make sure you vendors are all on the same page and just go with it. You can't change the weather, but you can change your attitude about it...and in the end, that will make all the difference.
Stacey and Justin's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Sofia Negron Photography
-Laura

Veil and Hair Accessories

It's your wedding day and you have your wedding dress on. The moment you add the veil, you feel it. You feel like a Bride.

There is something about adding the veil that transforms you into a Bride. There are so many different options when thinking about veils and hair accessories. Do you want to wear the veil all day? Just for the ceremony? Add hair accessories? Wear both? Here's the scoop on different veil and hair accessories for your wedding day. 

In the past, it was believed that a bride wore a veil to protect her from evil spirits. Today, a veil is simply an accessory. When choosing a veil, there are many things to think about (length, style, color, decoration, tiers).

Length and Styles: You can find a veil in any length. There are birdcage veils, blushers,shoulder length, elbow length, waist length, fingertip length, knee length, ballerina/floor length, chapel length, cathedral length and mantilla veils. Most are self explanatory but here are a few descriptions.

-A Birdcage veil is a short veil that can fall just below the chin.
Julie and Ryan's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Sandor Welsh Photography
-A Blusher is a short veil that covers the brides face as she enters the ceremony. It can be worn separately or added to a longer veil.
-Elbow length veils fall around the elbow. They work well with ball gown styles dresses because they end where the fullness of the skirt begins. 
-Fingertip length is probably one of the most popular lengths for a veil. This veil will extend to your fingertips. 
Jennifer and Eddy's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Justin & Mary Photography
-Chapel length is slightly shorter than a cathedral veil. This veil drapes the floor and are around 90 inches long.
Lauren and Ed's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Barton Paul Photography
-Cathedral length is the longest of the veils. It is the most formal and some can extend up to 9 feet along the ground.
Chrissy and Joe's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Laura Eaton Photography
-A Mantilla veil is a Spanish inspired wedding veil made of lace that frames the face.

Colors and Decorations: You will want to think about what color veil to choose. There are several shades of white and ivory, beige, golds and even pinks. You may also choose between a regular finish (matte) or a shimmer finish (shiny). Veils can also come with a variety of decorative edges. Some veils have a ribbon edge, some have lace and details sewn on. You can even have pearls or rhinestones places on your veil. Choose a veil that compliments your gown. You don't want to have a very ornate veil if your dress has tons of detail. Think about choosing a simpler veil so the detail of your dress will shine through. 

Tiers: Veils come in multiple tiers. You can choose between a one, two or three tier veil.

Wedding Location: Think about the location of your wedding. You may be dreaming of a cathedral length veil but if you are getting married on a beach or outdoors you may want to rethink that decision. As beautiful as the cathedral veil looks, you probably will not want to be dragging your veil around in the sand or the dirt outside.

Hairstyle: One last thing to think about when selecting a veil is how you are going to wear your hair the day of the wedding. If you plan to wear your hair down, think about choosing a simple, lightweight veil. If you are thinking about having a heavy headpiece and long veil, you may want to think about wearing an up-do to support the veil. 

In addition to wearing a veil, you may want to add a headpiece, fascinator or some hair accessories. A fascinator is a fancy word for a headpiece. Usually fascinators are made with feathers, flowers, jewels or beads and attach to the hair with a comb, headband or clip.

Tiaras: Tiaras used to be one of the only headpieces that brides wore. Today there are many options but this is still a classic option. You can choose tiaras as simple or elaborate as you like.
Marian and Brian's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Douglas Benedict Photography
Headbands: Headbands work with an up-do or a down-do. You can wear one with a veil or put one on after the ceremony for a new look at the reception. Headbands come in many styles. There are simple and jeweled headbands, some have feathers or flowers. Add an embellished headband and it will add instant sparkle to your look. 
Kelly and Tim's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Artistic Imagery 
Hair Combs: Hair combs are an easy way to add a little detail without going overboard. An intricate comb can complete a polished up-do or add some shimmer to any hairdo. 
Jena and Jason's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Misty Dawn Photography
Feathers and Flowers: Feathers are fun and flirty and add flair to your hairstyle. Flowers can add a pretty and romantic feeling to your look. You can even combine them for a flirty romantic look.
Casey and Will's Wedding
Photo courtesy of 217 Photography
Devon and Mike's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Ryan Estes
There are so many choices when deciding on a veil and hair accessories. Good luck!

-Nicole

Something Old, New, Borrowed and Blue

Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, and a silver sixpence in her shoe. This famous wedding saying is said to have dated back to the Victorian era in England with each line of the poem featuring a good fortune for the bride. As the theory goes, if the bride wears each of these on her wedding day, the marriage will be long and happy- so whether you believe in superstition or not, it can't hurt to include these elements in your wedding day attire! Here are a few suggestions to get you thinking:

Something Old
This represents the brides past and her family life before embarking on her marriage.
  • Your mother or grandmother's wedding gown or veil
  • If you aren't wearing a vintage dress, take a piece of the old dress and work it into the stem of your bouquet
  • Antique jewelry from a woman in your family
  • A family engagement ring or wedding band
  • Your parents cake topper

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Something New
This signifies the new life that the bride will lead and shows hope for her future with her new husband.
  • Your DRESS!
  • Gown accessories like your veil, a tiara, gloves, or a new purse
  • Spoil yourself with new jewelry
  • How about some new lingerie?
  • Personalized toasting flutes

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Something Borrowed
Most often a borrowed item should come from a married family member, so the luck of a happy marriage can be given to the new bride and groom.
  • Your mother or grandmother's pearl bracelet, necklace, or earrings
  • A family member or friends wedding dress
  • A brooch to put on your bouquet 
  • A reception location
  • A cake knife from a family wedding

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Something Blue
The color blue, signifying fidelity and purity, has long been a part of the marriage tradition dating back to early Roman civilization. There was even a time when many wedding dresses before the late 19th century were actually blue.
  • Blue shoes!
  • Blue flowers (hydrangeas)
  • A blue garter or lingerie
  • A blue handkerchief
  • A blue ring
  • A blue "I DO" at the bottom of your shoe

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And don't forget the sixpence in your shoe...

Silver Sixpence
The sixpence, an old silver British coin, gives financial fortune and prosperity to the bride and groom, so don't forget to put a penny in your shoe before walking down the aisle. If you want to stay as accurate as possible, you can even order a keepsake sixpence online!
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-Caitlin

Jena and Jason's Wedding

Jena and Jason were married in August at the beautiful St Joseph on the Brandywine. Jena and her bridesmaids started their day by getting their hair done by J.K. Tangles and makeup done by Kristen Lober. The ladies looked stunning and their hair and makeup stayed in place all day! After the ceremony and a wonderful photo session, everyone headed over to Waterfall Banquet and Conference Center were the reception was held. They had a beach theme for their wedding and their cake, made by Figgy's Fancy Cakes matched the theme perfectly. It was adorned with shells made of sugar- it was delicious! Instead of a traditional guestbook, they asked their guests to sign a Phillies Jersey. Pat from Synergetic Sounds did an incredible job getting the guests on the dance floor to dance the night away. A big thank you to Misty Dawn Photography for these wonderful images!

Congratulations Jena and Jason!

Fun Bridal Party Photos

Gone are the days of bridal party photos that look like this:
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Of course you will always want to have a few traditional photos to show the grandkids, but over the years, couples have been getting more and more creative with their bridal party photos. Be creative, make it personal and most of all have fun! Here are a few ideas to get you started: 

Go Back In History
Where was your first date? Where did you meet? Use these locations as inspiration for you bridal party shoot. Maybe your first date was a local ball game like this one.
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Get Silly
Don't be afraid to be a little goofy. Take a shot of the girls, then the guys or take individual shots and combine them for a great page in your wedding album.
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Abbey Road
You can never go wrong with this classic photo. Make it your own by including your entire bridal party, you will still get the theme across.
Marian and Brian's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Douglas Benedict Photography
Stash It Up
The mustache has become a hit feature in bridal party pictures in the past year or so, not just for the men, but the women too! Other ideas include; lips, glasses or funny noses too!
Sarah and Andy's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Smirnov Weddings
Trolley Shot
Your mode of transportation, in this case a trolley, makes for a great bridal party shot. Whether inside or out, there are so many ways to make this a great backdrop for a group picture.
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Jump For Joy
It might take a few tries, but once it's nailed, this photo is always a big hit. Make sure to include this on your photo list and hope your bridal party is coordinated.
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Leap Frog
Just like the old days. Take a trip back to your childhood by reenacting this classic game with your bridal party.
Samantha and Nate's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Jennifer Childress Photography
In The Field
If you're having a country wedding, or there are farms near by, take a hit from this photo and have your photographer stage a set up like this one with the beautiful trees and high grass all around. 
Sarah and Carmen's Wedding
Photo courtesy of Jennifer Childress Photography
-Caitlin